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Before we delve into what makes a woman fit for a relationship/marriage we should ask, *what makes a Woman a Woman?

It is breaks my heart whenever I see Women struggling for equality
I mean, who struggles to be equal with her subordinate.

In essence, for me, Apologies to whoever may find this offensive but really, *it is a Woman who has not truly discover her powers and know her worth that struggles for EQUALITY with Men that have been put under them by nature to naturally control

Only few Women of my generation are getting this right

As a Woman, you’ve been given so much power that without struggling, merely doing the right thing will automatically make you control your man and all that he has.

Little wonder a wise man said, *when you hear people say it is his girlfriend/wife that is controlling him, it means there is peace in that relationship/marriage

You would hardly see those really enjoying their relationships and marriages come out to shout Men are Scum

If only Women can take their time to discover themselves first….

There is nothing out into the hands of a reasonable woman that she will not change for good

It is said that whatever you give a woman, she multiplies!

Put in her hand a broken man and watch her set him straight

Give her sperm and watch her give a Human

Give her little money and watch her do magic with it…

There is more to what makes a woman up other than her beauty, brain, butts and boobs….

There is the WOMAN part only few and taking note of;
A woman builds

A woman molds

A woman corrects

A woman *controls*

A woman dictates

A woman raises

A woman directs

A woman is a multiplier

A woman adjusts and makes better what may seem to have been spoilt
*The Devil knows all of these!!!!!

The reason they are the main point of target….of every form of things that will crumble the institution of marriage…

The original design of marriage is multiply and be fruitful…..

The devil is busy attacking the fruitful part leaving the multiply part alone….the reason we now have more Single Mothers and broke Fathers
*Why are women always the ones at the centre of everything that will further destroy the home?

A Pro Feminist friend said to me *The Virtuous Woman described in the Bible is a mumu and a slave

Another Christian female friend recently said *leave the Bible out of this conversation

Why always Women?

Yet, their ratio to men keeps increasing on a daily basis

Women are POWER!

A revelation came through Apostle Selman jokingly and I am yet to recover from it….

He said it and even laughed….

How come Women are given the same description as the Holy Spirit….

Is it by coincidence that they are both referred to as The Helper
Is it by accident that till tomorrow… The statement *Beside every successful man is a woman* will forever remain valid?

For me, the men that gets the wrong side of women are those that don’t understand their being and nature
And that tells you something scary about WOMEN

if they want to wreck you…. It’ll take them absolutely nothing, they don’t even need jazz….they will destroy you and still stay by your side

Go and ask the Men that have seen the brutality of an angry woman
Now tell me, Why Should such a powerful being be struggling for equality with a man that has been put under her.

The Man is the Head, and the woman is the Neck

_So back to the main question_: *What makes a woman fit for a relationship/marriage?

This question is imperative and only you can answer it sincerely to yourself

So, going by the above….

As a Christian Lady, are you fit for a relationship?

Many are not compatible with themselves before going out there seeing external compatibility
The verse 10 of the passage under review according to NIV version (Proverbs 31) states that….

A wife of noble character who can find? She is worth far more than rubies*

The number one criteria that you should consider in order to rate yourself fit or unfit for a relationship or ultimately marriage_ is the question of your character

Your character is the foundation of You as a human in relation with other humans

For you as a Woman, not just anyhow character but *Noble Character

The Noble Character being spoken about here among all other qualities is placing so much emphasis on your strength as a woman, your strength both in mind and physically

How strong is your emotional intelligence

As a woman
Being of Noble Character connotes showing in all sense of originality and genuineness those qualities such as honesty, generosity, courage, and so on

If you are found wanting in any of the above, it is not too late to start make amends and becoming intentional about working on you
So, to conclude on this verse…

We all could evidently see that the Bible did not state that for you as woman, your worth is in your physical appearance and assets but in the nobility of your character

Her Husband has full confidence in her and lacks nothing of value

Many mistakes can be overlooked, but the mistake of wrong choice?

The nightmare will forever hunt you

Many are roaming the stresses right now with broken hearts and souls
*ehn, but I can divorce easily now….

Well, I am sorry, if you know the emotional breakdown and damages that come with divorce, you will prefer to take your time and obey every law including getting God involve early enough before delving into anything Relationship
Simply because, they refused to yield to the principles and follow the guidelines

While it is true that there is no universal manual for Relationship, life and and love, some things are just naturally basic laws that must be fulfilled

A mentor of mine said, he is of strong opinion that *if two strangers are brought together, meeting for the first time on the altar, and they follow the biblical standards of the design of God for marriage, they will have a happier home that those that may have dated or courted for years

For example, as a Christian Lady and Young Man, you have no excuse not to get God involved in anything and everything that regards your life
So, Yes, while there may not be a universal manual that guides life, love and Relationship, we as Christians, have the Bible and the Holy Spirit as a guide

It is critical so we don’t perish as a result of lack of knowledge

This is the point where discuss your dependability as a woman

According to the Verse 11 of our case study, for a virtuous woman, *Her Husband has full confidence in her and lacks nothing of value

A Young Woman, are you reliable enough for you to depended upon

_One of the attributes that make you up as Woman ready for the institution of marriage is your dependability

Are you the type that your man can say go and meet my woman, she’ll take care of it
Or you are the type that for every thing let our Daddy come

You see, if you are this type, from experience and Realities obtainable around, it is only a matter of time before he gets tired of you and he gets bored

The women in this category are the ones the public allege of controlling their man or their men being too fond of them

Won’t you also be fond of someone who can think on her feet and give solution to problems even in your absence
She brings him good, not harm, ALL THE DAYS OF HER LIFE

Putting the concept of good into context and perspective….

It means, peace of mind, respect, honour and happiness
What most side chicks do to snatch people’s husband is this factor
Many of them understands that many women becomes nonchalant and lackadaisical about their men upon marriage and entrance into a serious relationship

Then they come in
Except the man has a problem of indiscipline, it is not really as easy to snatch a man that is enjoying this from his woman 24/7
Tí ògiri kò bá la ẹnu, aláǹgbá kò lè wọlé….

Furthermore, A Virtuous Woman selects wool and flax and works with EAGER HANDS
Oh yes!

A Virtuous woman is not a lazy woman

She is not the type that competes for equality in the House

She is hardworking and not the lazy type

She is the one that recognizes her duty and performs them diligently

She supports her man and not wait on him for everything

The reason many young ladies out there are not as respected and valued is because they wait on the men in their lives to do everything and anything

No sense of hardwork
And trust me, if as a lady, all you can add to your Man’s Life is the Sexual Pleasure, no matter how good you may be in bed, at some point, he will be overwhelmed with responsibilities that he’ll lose the interest in your sexual prowess and go out seeking new adventure

I think ladies need to understand that there’s a special joy that comes to their men when he knows that he is not dating a lazy dummy.

©Absol